In the past year of acclimating to life in the South, I've noted that it's not so much the expected, immediate things that are
different about living here. It's the subtle, quiet differences that can be surprisingly odd.
A colleague noted that when blacks and whites in American talk about race, they talk across each other. They're communicating in different spaces in the bandwidth. On a similar note, what's struck me about the enthusiastic response Sarah Palin has received among the culturally conservative base, is that it's something very
implicit about her that makes the evangelical demographic so excited. It's something unspoken, understood.
I find myself wondering if the things that separate us, that create distance between red and blue America, or the North and the South, North America and South America, etc. etc. , are not the salient issues we think about dividing us (affirmative action, abortion, war), but rather more hidden differences in the way we think.
Because no matter how much separate cultures, civilizations, or ideologies may differ over issues of the day, perhaps what really produces cultural disagreements are the fundamental, hard-to-name ways in which we process information, and our collective experiences that we use to frame that information.
Getting through to others, and listening to their needs and expectations. I'm getting frustrated with it this month. Because it really requires a willingness to rethink all premises.